Don't Let Your Child Be One Of The Forgotten Grievers

There's Hope: Letters For Grieving Children Like You

 It's overwhelming for children to try to understand death and to cope with the loss of a loved one. as a Parent Or Close Family Member, you may not Know How to help them.

 After 40 Years as a psychotherapist, I created this tool to help families know what to do. 

 

Melodee Roo The Tree Kangaroo

Melodee Roo The Tree Kangaroo

 Lovable, sweet Melodee Roo & The Wantoks Too! lend a helping hand to grieving children. Melodee writes letters to your child once a month for a year. 

Hello Dear Friend, It's Me, Melodee Roo The Tree Kangaroo! 

Apsy The Cassowary

Apsy The Cassowary

  'Wantok' means close friend and one who speaks the same language.

Apsy is Melodee's friend. Both he and Melodee are learning to get through the death of a loved one. Melodee Roo & The Wantoks Too! understand all about loss and the language of grief.

 

Eugene

Eugene The Red-Eyed Tree Frog

 Eugene has a habit of suddenly appearing to help Melodee. His favorite saying is, "Feelings Are For Healing".  Each letter shares the continuing story of Melodee and Apsy as they learn to cope with their grief. Songs and Roo-Tivities help to comfort, educate and inspire for a whole year through.

How It Helps

  • Relatable characters provide step-by-step guidance for a child and family. (I hear this all the time...What do I do? What should I say? Now you can learn and have the confidence you are doing and saying the right things.) 

  • Encourages open communication about death.(Simple, clear, concrete explanations are suitable for children. It even answers a question kids have - Does it hurt to die?)

  • Helps a child to identify sensations in their body and to name and express emotions that are a normal part of the grieving process. (There is a difference between thoughts, sensations and emotions, but EVERYBODY mixes them up. Help your child not to feel mixed-up or discombobulated.)

  • Lets a child explore troubling thoughts they may keep to themselves and gives outlets to express them. (A communication skill is taught in Roo-Letter Four. Roo-Tivities in each letter help children express themselves in different ways.)

  • Helps a child understand that courage helps to build resilience and confidence as they learn to cope. (Kids are resilient, but they need help in coping and building confidence.) 

  • The power of friendship with Melodee Roo & The Wantoks Too! softens the wall of isolation a child may feel. (Kids won't always talk to their friends because they know they won't understand.)

  • Provides coping strategies for nightmares, handling anniversaries, birthdays, and special events, helping to keep memories alive. (There are tons of ideas and projects they can do, and the song, In A Different Light is great for helping with nightmares.)

  • Soothes through comforting songs. (Children and families alike love Disney songs and there are six included written by a composer who has written for Disney films.)

  • Provides an opportunity for families to bond together. (Only you know how devastating your loss is. Help each other to heal together.)

  • Provides year-long guidance that lasts a life-time, because grief does not end after the funeral.( Melodee Roo & The Wantoks Too! Letters For Grieving Children Like You is the only resource to offer this type of long-term guidance for your family right in your home)